Attitude is all that it takes to solve any problem one is facing.

 

Attitude is a quality that is rarely talked about. Overlooking the attitudes of the people involved when resolving differences is as good as forgetting a password in a transaction. Similarly, attitude can be compared to the main ingredient required in order to come up with the final product.

 

All that we do in life hinches on attitude. ATTITUDE is therefore a KEY to any problem faced by mankind. We would define attitude as a Mental disposition of a person. It can also be explained as the general overview, perceptions and one's take and approach on issues.

Attitude is characterized by the general behaviour, pattern of life, conduct and mannerisms of someone. The way a person responds to a given situation is dependant on the attitude. Some people are easily irritated by situations and hastily overreact.

 

Others are temporamental and get provoked easily. A person who is temporamental often is controlled and driven by emotions, sentiments and feelings. Some people are easily offended and are quick to judge others. Being judgemental, curious and suspicious is an attitude of some people.

Attitude is a deep rooted disposition of a person. Usually an attitude is an innermost person seated and hidden within a person. It is the attitude of a person that reflects the hidden motive.

 

 

In life it is critical having a right attitude. Each and every individual must take a personal introspection in order to determine his own attitude. No single person can claim knowing someone better. We all know ourselves well.

If our inclination is bad, we get to know ourselves first before others realize. Similarly even when anyone stand accused, the accused person knows whether he is guilty or innocent. Others can only discern. That is the more reason why it is important not to rush in judging others.

Anyone who stand accused must be given ample time to exculpate himself. Generally anyone who is accused is perceived innocent until proven guilty by the Court. The Court is very observant about the attitude of the accused.

 

The attitude of an accused person speak volume about the purported allegation. It is always important observing the facial expressions, body movements, posture, gestures, appearance of the eyes, stature of the body, one's expressions, intonnation of the voice, consistency in articulations, inconsistencies, reactions and general behaviours and mannerisms.

 

It is easy to tell whether someone is telling the truth or not by observing the general attitude. An innocent person always remain calm, patient and collected. He does not get unsettled easily. An innocent person does not panic neither does he show any excitement.

 

 

It is urgent that we all cultivate the right attitude. We are living in the last days and alarming issues are becoming common. We are getting overwhelmed with various situations.

Lack of the right attitude can endanger our lives. Without this quality, it is easy falling prey to suicidal feelings. We may also succumb to different pressures of life and give in to Cardiac complications, Stroke, Heart Attack, Ulcers, Stress, Depression, Loneliness, Diabetes, High Blood Pressure and other ailments.

 

Regardless of the problem we could be faced with, the right attitude will help us be equal to the task. The right attitude will help us maintain a humble disposition even when incensed. No situation is unbearable by a person with the right attitude.

 

Rather than behaving indecently and hastily, a good attitude will help us to value endurance, perserverance, calmness of heart, patience, goodness, kindness, cheefness, joy and love critical qualities that are vital for all of us!

 

Writter: Joseck Kunda - Life Coach